HASTI PUBLIC SCHOOL & JR.COLLEGE ,DONDiCHA
BLOG NO.211
If we ask you, what would you choose for your kids among success or failure, the obvious answer would be success. After all, who would wish for failure for the apple of their eyes!
Every parent wants their child to be successful, to do that best they can in everything they do.
Parents push their children to get straight A’s, all while maintaining a social life, extracurricular activities, and working towards their future.
Not only is the pressure to succeed hard on children, but parents often become too involved in their children’s life to let them fail, which may seem like a good thing, but isn’t. Failure helps to build character and allows people to learn from their mistakes. Teaching your child that failure is bad, is more harmful than letting them fail.
Teaching your child that failure is okay may be difficult to do, but this can help them to understand that mistakes can help them to succeed. However, teaching your child to fail must be done right, you want to make sure they know that failure only means that can learn from their mistakes, not give up. This is why we At our HASTI PUBLIC SCGIIK teach our children about failing because we want them to learn and grow from it, not quit because of it.
While you may not want your child to fail at all, eventually they will, and when they do it is important for them to know that from failure comes success.
Many people who were taught that failure is a bad thing may have been successful for so long, but everyone fails eventually, and the difference is what you do with that failure.
People who are scared to fail may give up more easily out of the fear of failing again. For this reason, it is important to teach our children to fail and to come back from their failures.
Your child’s success is important, but helping them develop the right mindset about failure and hard work can help them to reach success and be more confident when they do fail. At Hasti public school ,Dondaicha , we want our students to succeed just as much as you do, and we maintain a 100 percent ability to complete their course . We work hard to help our students succeed and offer prep for our school students, allowing them to properly prepare for their future.
There are certain precautions we take when teaching children about failure. We Help them to have the right mindset about their abilities we help them to overcome failure and become successful* As a parent you may teach your child about failure and you can help them to perceive failure as a learning opportunity.
Parents Mindset
The truth of the matter is that parents have a huge impact on the way their children view the world and their mindset on different matters.
An NPR( Natural product report) article takes a deeper look at a parent’s effect on their children. In this article, they mention that children who view their abilities as something that can change overtime handle obstacles, such as failure, in more constructive ways. Parents can help kids to develop this mindset.
The way parents react to their children’s failures and mistakes can alter the way the kids view their abilities and intelligence. The NPR article quotes Kyla Haimovitz, a professor of psychology at Stanford University. Haimovitz says that parents need to react in certain ways to help their children develop this mindset, that abilities can be improved with hard work and to not give up.
If your child comes home with a bad grade on a test, the way you react could change the way your child thinks. Saying something that implies they are better in other subject and reassuring them that they still have talent in other areas may seem like a good response*
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Haimovitz and her colleague, Carol Dweck, conducts studies to see how a parent’s view on failure changed the cay the children feel about their abilities and intelligence.”
After surveying parents about their feelings towards their children coming home with a failing quiz grade, they found that parents who saw failure as an opportunity believed their children could still improve in the subject
Dealing With Failure
After you realize that your perception on failure matters to your child’s beliefs, it will be easier for you to help them deal with failure. Your child will fail at something eventually, everyone does, but the way you help them deal with it is what is important.
Using Failure As An Opportunity
Teach your child to try again. Giving up will never help them reach success and trying again may be scary, especially after failing, but it is important. Teach them that perseverance can help them to reach their goals and be successful. If your child is having a hard time using their failure as an opportunity, share these quotes with them from Forbes, from very successful people, who have all failed before.
Failing is the best learning experience we can get. It teaches us what not to do, allows us to think about what to do differently, and helps us build character.
If your child gives up after failing, they will never learn the importance of perseverance and they will quit every time they run into a complication.
Whether your child fails a test or loses a game, teaching them that they can improve and do better next time can help them to not feel completely defeated. Working hard to do better on the next game or test can help them to build a better work ethic and can lead them to success. The true failure quits rather than trying again.
No one wants to fail. But failing is one of the best things we can do because it helps us build character, learn from our mistakes, and work even harder to reach success
Failure helps us to develop a more positive mindset about our intelligence and how we can improve. Many
parents push their children to succeed, which we all obviously want, but those children who fear failure will take it so much harder when they do fail. Teaching our children that failure is nothing but a learning
At our Hasti School, we don’t want our students to fail, but we do want them to understand that failures happen to everyone. And more importantly, we want them to know how to use that failure as a positive in their life, learn from it, and be successful the next time they try something.
So,summarily we may put it as;
While success is always welcomed and seems pleasant, failures are too inevitable for anyone.
Why is it crucial to prepare kids for failure?
We, at Hasti public school understand that being a parent, you have an innate desire to keep your kids protected against the hard realities of life.
However, this impulsion to protect the children often end up making the parents commit the biggest mistake of keeping their kids from learning the skills to deal with the abnormal and untoward situations in life. After all, some of the best life lessons are derived from not getting wins but rather getting failures and learning from the mistakes.
Studies have revealed that when children learn to cope with setbacks, it develops in them some key characteristics like creative thinking, emotional resilience, management skills, collaborative skills, and much more.
How to teach kids that failures are as much a part of life as successes?
So now, when you know why it is essential to prepare your kids for the probable failures that they might come across, let us now have a look at some of the ways you can teach your kids the same.
• Make them look at failures as learning opportunities
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• Inspire them to try out new things
Children generally show more inclination towards the activities that either fascinate them or at which they outshine, isn’t it? But if your little one refrains from trying different activities he/she is not skilled at, he/she would not be able to widen the horizons*.
Hence, make sure you introduce your kids to new things and encourage them to try their hands on them. Persuade them that it is fine to commit mistakes when accomplishing new activities, but it is important to at least try with all their heart.
Summing up:
We, at Hasti public school ,Dondaicha , a well-known school in the vicinity understand that all parents wish to see their kids growing up into caring, responsible, and knowledgeable adultsU. But for that, it is essential that just as much you prepare them to embrace the successes they get in life, you also teach them *to take their failures in the same stride and consider them as the stepping stones to bigger feats ahead.
Your feedback and additional innovative ideas to prepare children to tackle failure are welcome. Do write your comments.
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