BLOG NO. 71
While our school was in the run for *HAPPY SCHOOL AWARD & finally when our school was rewarded wirth Platinum award of *LEADING HAPPY SCHOOL , many eyebrows raised few commemnted :- Do we justify Leading Happy school award .
For me Happiness is simply the * to find gratitude and satisfaction in the moment that you have right now*. In other words, your happiness hinges on living in the present moment instead of yearning for some future. Indicator of success is Expression of gratefulness and ability to not want more please permit me to putforth the excerpts from discourses of Hon’ble Dalailama ,which has enlightened me The basic source of all happiness is a sense of kindness and warm-heartedness towards others.We are all the same as human beings. We are born the same way, we die the same way, and we all want to lead happy lives. “ We must continually consider the oneness of humanity, remembering that we all want to be happy.”
The key to happiness is peace of mind. This is not something that can be bought.
Inner peace has to be cultivated by each of us from within.
All our religious traditions, despite whatever philosophical differences there may be among them, carry the same message of love and warm-heartedness that is the foundation of such peace of mind.
I sometimes wish that we were more like children, who are naturally open and accepting of others.
Instead, as we grow up, we fail to nurture our natural potential and our sense of fundamental human values. We get caught up in secondary differences and tend to think in terms of ‘us’ and ‘them’.
Education can change this. We need to learn to distinguish the destructive nature of emotions like anger, fear and attachment, which disturb our peace of mind, from the *positive qualities of compassion that are genuine sources of happiness.
I often ask myself what the purpose of life is. I conclude that it is to be happy. We have no guarantee of what will happen in the future, but we live in hope, which is what keeps us going.
There is sometimes insufficient understanding of the difference between sensory consciousness and mental consciousness
The ultimate source of happiness is a mental feeling of joy, and not a wealth of material goods.
The material things provide happiness and pleasure is generally short-lived. Such satisfaction does little to allay anxiety and fear. On the other hand, mental joy sustains itself.
Nowadays, scientists, too, agree that our basic human nature is compassionate and warm-hearted because that is the way our lives begin. Without our mother’s love and affection, we would not have survived
Since we depend on other human beings for our own happiness, it is natural to feel warm-hearted towards them.
Human beings are responsive. No matter how beautiful a flower may be, it won’t react to my smile. But if I smile at another human being, she or he generally smiles in return, and even animals react positively.
Today, the world is mostly focused on external development. However, ancient Indian traditions emphasise looking within to find the real source of joy.
To be happy, it is our minds we must transform. This is the basis of the longstanding traditions of *ahimsa , doing no harm, and karuna, wishing others to be free from suffering.Compassion, an active concern for others’ well-being, is not only part of religion, it also belongs to our lives as human beings.
From compassion, we develop self-confidence; that brings inner strength, allowing us to act with transparency and candour. If a person is happier, his or her family is happier; if families are happy, neighbourhoods and nations will be happy. By each of us working to transform ourselves, we can change our human way of life and make this a century of compassion.
We must continually consider the oneness of humanity, remembering that we all want to be happy. And, indeed, everyone has a right to a happy life. Along the way, we may be faced with problems, but we must not lose hope. We must keep up our determination without being impatient to achieve quick results.
If you agree with what is written above you will do your best to make others happy .
Let us give our best to make our school a Leading Happy school
*JAI HIND
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